Sugasm #60

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Christmas for the lonely wanker

I hate to admit it, but this time of year gets me a little down in the dumps. If you were to ask me in the real world, I would argue against it, full of stoicism, but the truth is, I feel lonely.

Why? Christmas is sold as being a time of togetherness and of people connecting, for some there are religious aspects to it that fulfill them. I have togetherness, and my whole extended family is coming down to our place this year, so I will be catching up with the relatives I see but once a year. Religion is not a part of my life, so I cannot count that. But there is no – one outside of those relationships for me. I do not have a girlfriend and the prospects look pretty bleak to tell you the truth. The 3 months into my 23rd year of virginity can start to be a little taxing.

It doesn’t help when I go to the shops to pick up presents that I am flooded by couples doing coupley things, coupley things I have never known. That is the part that gets me down the most. Of course, only knowing sex with my hand and fleshlight, certainly makes me a little itchy to actually try with a flesh and blood human, I could go a brothel any time I wanted to solve the virginity “problem”, but that isn’t what I feel I am missing out on. No, it is the togetherness that I cannot procure, I cannot replace with porn, fantasies and the occasional eyeful. It is odd, I feel like I miss it, yet never having experienced it, I don’t know what I am missing.

Why wouldn’t I admit to it? I am an only child, and growing up I spent a lot of time on my own, forced to amuse myself. This has been an asset in my adult life, I can enjoy and make the most of time with only my thoughts to keep me company. It has also built a strong sense of self – reliance. It is a blessing and a curse. I am quite capable of taking care of myself and my affairs, yet I fiercely defend it to the extent of turning away people whom on reflection were trying to be friendly and am now sitting here alone on Christmas.

Each year I get similar feelings, each year I shrug them off with the same steely determination. Yet this year it feels a little more major. I am hearing stories of people from high school getting married, having a kid, and I’m reading articles in the paper about my generation needing to get it all sorted by 25 or they’ll be sad old fuckers waiting out the years to the grave.

I had always thought there was a core contingent of people who held out on sex until they were married. Don’t get me wrong, I am not completely in the dark, people have sex and I am painfully aware. I just always thought there was a seemingly high number who held this antiquated belief. Reading in the paper the other day that in my age bracket, that group is less than 1%, shook that right out of me. It also brought the virginity issue back into my head.

My virginity has always been a non – issue for me. I had always considered it a lot like bungee jumping, I hadn’t done that either and it didn’t bother me. But in the present state of using sex to sell fumigation to telephone service I can’t help but feel (and am!) left out.

It has also had an impact on my wanking. I had never really thought about it before, mainly because I tend to come out of any little funk of depression pretty quickly. If I feel really down, I usually have a bit of a cry, go to sleep, wake up the next morning and feel fantastic. I haven’t felt as upset enough to bring any tears out, but I’ve just felt…bland. All the days blend into each other, all my senses feel muted and I just feel dulled.

I think the relationship stuff is going to have to wait, in my whole life I have been on 2 dates and have never successfully asked someone out. That is an area I am going to have to take slow and hopefully find a patient and understanding tutor in the future.

In 2007 I am going to change something. I actually have a bit of money sitting aside here and I’m going to use part of it to lose my virginity. I have thought fairly long and hard over whether it is a good idea or not.

1. Prostitution is legal where I live
2. The reputable brothels have strict rules for both their staff and customers, so I have a close to non – existent chance of catching something
3. A reputable place doesn’t force people into the trade
4. I can stop dwelling on the issue

I am interested in your thoughts on the matter. I know many people find the idea abhorrent, but when the time finally comes to actually be with a companion, I want to bring at least something no matter how insignificant to the table as at the moment I have nothing.

But enough of my saddening rambling, I hope everyone has a great Christmas, no matter what you end up doing with yourselves. It has been an interesting year for me, the first time I have ever really confronted too much about myself and I’ve always said that talking about things to complete strangers is much easier. Thank you for reading and all your comments, sorry if I was a bit lacking in replying to comments, I will strive to do better next year! Also, I hope to get to everyone’s requests for gotcum soon and a few new ones of my own, sorry if they are a bit late, this time of year is always busy.

Finally, a little Christmas cheer :)

The Christmas Present

The other night was my work’s Christmas party. It was the usual sort of work Christmas party, people got drunk, people exchanged gifts and a few people said things that they regret today.

I usually hang back, I don’t drink and I am not completely outgoing, so it takes me a little while to get into the spirit of the occasion and join in the festivities.

I tell you this because my favorite MILF co – worker was there wearing quite a revealing dress.

At the end of the evening, it was time for all the people who didn’t embarrass themselves to say goodbye to everyone else, and thank people for their gifts. I don’t really get into Christmas, but I do give presents (I know how cool it is to receive them, so consider it my goodwill!). It was time to be thanked, and thanked I was!

She went in to hug me, and owing to the copious alcohol consumed, it was not the normal hug between two people who are colleagues, there was a lot more contact, and my dream of dreams came true, for 5 glorious seconds her rather perky breasts were pressed hard up against me. I wanked to that as soon as I got home and into bed!

That’s my Christmas present, and I am grateful!

Sugasm #58

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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Bad Santas! (http://www.1trackmind.com)
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Mile High Club

I have half joined the mile high club. I say half because it was just me. A few years ago I had to travel to Europe to see some family. It was a long trip and a good slice of it took part at some sort of nighttime. When you pass over so many time zones, your concept of night is another’s concept of midday. Whatever it was, the sky was dark and the lights were dimmed.

All through the flight I had received a little more attention than I usually do on flights. It was my first time flying alone, internationally, and despite my pleading, my parents insisted they tell the airline to keep an eye on me. I was 17 and at the time wanted to be a commercial pilot and was obsessed with planes, I knew enough to get to where I needed to go! I felt a bit down about having a minder, a teenage boy, miles away from the parents, the last thing you want is a pseudo parent!

Anyway, the first leg was fine, fairly uneventful domestic flight. I found my way to my connecting international flight and realized that there would be a 3 hour wait. This was pre wireless and laptop days, so there is very little to entertain yourself with. I had some food, read newspapers from all over the world and eyed flight attendants. Pushing midnight and there was not long left to departure.

Since I had been watching beautiful flight attendants for an hour now I was quite ready to go to the toilet and relieve myself. I had a 10 hour plane ride ahead of me, and at the time it hadn’t crossed my mind of masturbating on the plane. I figured I could be seedy for a little while and go to the public toilet and rub one out.

Cleaning in progress!

Crap, I couldn’t go on the trek to find another toilet otherwise I may miss my plane. How on earth do you explain that? “Oh yeah sorry I missed the plane Dad, I was jerking off in the toilet”. No way. I’d have to leave it until Europe.

The flight was fairly uneventful, my minder came round a few times and made sure things were fine. About half way through the trip most people fell asleep, but not me. There was the changing over of the crew, and I had a new person assigned to me, Sophia. Sophia was hot, there was no other way to describe it. She had a sultry accent, and the looks to go with it.

Since I like planes, I took the opportunity to go for a little walk through the plane and have a chat. I ended up in the galley where Sophia was doing some busywork. We had a chat, where she had been, how the job is, is it fun and so on. I liked the company, and Sophia was certainly very pleasing to the eye and ear.

Back in my seat I had a nap, and the worst possible time for a sex dream. I never have sex dreams, maybe one every two years, they are so rare for me. I woke up with a raging hard on and wanking on the mind.

Right, this had to be sorted. I was uncomfortable, and very self conscious. I waited until my erection lost a bit of momentum, so I could hide it in my pants. I walked off to the toilet, passing Sophia’s galley on the way. Sophia asked as to my health and gave me the smile of smiles.

I don’t really know how people manage to join this mile high club with two people in there, the cramped bathroom on a plane seemed a bit awkward even with just me in there. But I persevered and managed to move with the minor turbulence to land all of my cum into the bowl. I felt great, I could land and see my extended family with a clear head. However, now to mask my activities and head back to my seat undetected. I made the usual sounds people make when they are in the toilet doing anything but using a toilet, the flushing (obvious need in this case) and the washing of the hands made very deliberate and audible.

I rounded my way back to my seat and sat down. Sophia came round in a half an hour with some water.

“You should drink some water after exertion like that”

Oh Fuck! Oh Shit! Oh Crap! Fuck!

My eyes went a wide and dinner plates, I either went white like a ghost or red like a fire truck, doesn’t matter which. I was sprung.

“Ummmm, sorry, but I’m young and it’s been a while, and I had a dream and, and, and” (I am terrible at hurried explanations).
“Don’t mention it, only you and I know, and I don’t care. I can keep your secret if you can keep mine”
“…”
“I was just in there doing the same”

Wow!

The rest of the flight was uneventful, we landed and it was time to leave the best flight I’ve ever been on. As we shuffled out of the plane and all the flight attendants, pilots etc. are thanking you for flying with them Sophia gives me a wink.

To this day, much like the school camp it remains burnt into my brain, I love to revisit this fantasy. Has anyone else joined the mile high club?

Sugasm #57

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November 2006 - Totals

In terms of wanking, November was not too bad. Unfortunately it was the worst month so far, but despite the figures not holding this up, it was quite enjoyable.

The traveling parent arrived home on the 4^th and left on the 26^th. Those 3 weeks were quite abysmal. Again, looking at the figures only, it would seem that in country was better.

However, during that 3 week period, a had a number of stretches without any wanking at all. The longest of which was 4 whole days. 4 whole days is a difficult challenge when you have a lot of time on your hands – and no way to use it.

So, how was it enjoyable you might ask? Well, even though I had only a few days, the way things fell meant I had a fairly rare amount of privacy. I did not need to be asked twice to capitalize on it!

The figures:

Total for the month: 23
Total in country: 12
Total not in country: 11

Totals for the year:

All up: 324
Total in country: 109 (33.6%)
Total not in country: 215 (66.4%)

335 days of the year have elapsed, and I have jerked off 324 times. I have 28 days left in the year, I need to masturbate 39 times to have a 1/day average, which I would like.

The challenge is on!

The School Camp

In my final year of high school, a few of us were invited to go on a school camp. This was a camp, apparently for the best and brightest students. I somehow managed to be included in this group, even though I was a bit of a trouble maker in high school.

The place was an old refugee holding camp a fair way out of town, it had been converted into a camp site by the department of education, specifically for schools to send kids for whatever reason. It was right next to the beach, and was at a good time of the year. Assignments at school weren’t too heavy, the weather was pleasant and in general life was pretty good.

We did all those usual stupid activities that you get to do on school camps, plus because we were seen as the gifted group, we got to do some math questions as well. After that, we were on the whole left to sort ourselves out. We ended up having minimal adult supervision for 3 whole days, out of a 5 day camp.

Around day 4, we figured a visit to the beach was in order. This is where my story becomes a little more exciting. While walking around the place, a friend of mine said that she had brought her new bikini along. My ears pricked up at the mention of this. Many times I had used her image in my mind as fuel for my furious teenage wanking.

I was down at the beach, just staring out into the wide blue expanse. My friend walks out onto the beach, just like in one of those teenage movies of the 80s. She looked stunning. Her perfect breasts showed a nice amount of cleavage, and the bottom half of this miniscule garment was held together with string. Her legs were shaven, and nicely tanned and I even got a glimpse at what could be a trimmed pubic area. It was a sight for sore eyes. My dick reacted immediately, making a difficult situation potentially embarrassing as well. I sat next to this girl every day in my math class, and directly opposite in history.

This was even worse in that it was a school camp, I couldn’t just go somewhere and jerk off, I was under a little more scrutiny than if I was at home.

The day was at an end and we were given pretty much free reign. So long as we showed up for food, and were quiet enough, we were free. Most people went back to their dorms and did the usual things teenagers do at camps. I went for a late night walk. I like walks at night, I find them very calming and I can get a lot of thinking done with minimal distraction.

I had wandered past the window of my friend and was amazed at what I saw. She was undressing, getting ready for bed. These sorts of things had never happen to me! They haven’t since, but this memory sticks in my head. I was peering into the room, and saw her shirt come off, then her pants, revealing the tiniest of thongs. She brushed her hair for a while, and went to bed.

I was in heaven. Those images have remained burnt into my brain to this day. However, I was also in a tough spot. I so desperately needed to release some tension. I headed down to the beach and saw that it was completely empty. Not a soul for miles around. I whipped off my pants and jerked off furiously. I came fairly quickly, I was holding in a fair bit. But those very, very nice images of 10 minutes ago were tantalizingly fresh in my mind, I just had to go to again.
I returned to my dorm room, feeling like I had a million bucks in my pocket. Not only had I seen one of the sexiest girls in my school in both a revealing bikini, but mostly naked, I had managed to jerk off – twice.

I loved that school camp, those images are still in my head, and right now I can feel myself getting hard. I think it is time to revisit them :)

Sugasm #55

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A holiday to remember.

Many years ago I went on holidays with the parents. We went to a small town, away from all the distractions of the city. We stayed in a small hotel place, run by a very pleasant old couple. What made this trip great, apart from the relaxing aspect of it was the room. My OWN room. Ordinarily all 3 of us would pile into one room. This puts a huge cramp on any sort of masturbation you have planned. On previous trips I might manage to sneak half a dozen at most in a whole month. It was not particularly nice.

However, when we got there, the old couple said that because we were one of two groups staying there, would I like my own room? The answer, even if I wasn’t a masturbator is obvious. A 16 year old male, dragged to a small town with the parents, anything would be great!

The first night I put the room to good use. Even at home I have to have a degree of caution, the parents come and go throughout the day and give vague ideas on when they will be back, so it is difficult to jerk off privately. At night I have a lot more chances, but it’s night time – I’m tired. So a room with a lockable door, and no chance of being walked in on is a blessing.

The first night I wanked hard and fast, going at it 3 times before being too exhausted to go any further. I slept the sleep of the happiest man on the planet. There is also another angle to the small country town that had not occurred to me. Since I grew up in the city, entertainment has always been around me. I can entertain myself, but usually with things, like TV, lego (when I was a little tacker) and so on. I’d never really had just myself and nature to entertain me. This was a small town was crammed into the hills, with no one around for miles, I had to do something.

I hired a bicycle and headed off down the tracks to have a look. The scenery was spectacular, the closest you’d ever see in the city would be on TV. But what struck me more was the complete lack of any human life. In the suburbs, you are fairly insulated from everything, but over the fence, not 20 feet away, there could be someone. Even though to are alone, you are not. However out there, it’s all you.

I’m not much of a risk taker, but this particular day I felt invigorated. There was no one around for miles, and I was still as horny as I was the previous night. The air was warm and it was a picturesque day, one for a postcard. I went skinny dipping for the first time in my life. And whilst in the water, what a great opportunity to wank!

I spent most of those few weeks in a routine of leaving straight after breakfast, returning to my secluded little spot, swimming and masturbating then heading back for dinner, doing something in town and then finishing off the day with a bit more masturbating.

It was a great trip, and I on arrival back at home, I felt disheartened that I no longer had the freedom I had. I feel that during my time there, my thinking was a lot clearer and I acted more confidently. Despite being a city kid, and most likely being a city adult, I want to move to a small town like that and have that freedom again. With the advances in technology, I might just be able too as well!

Sugasm #54

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My Response to The Government’s Pushing of Celibacy on Adults! (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)

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Life as an Adult Cam Worker (http://www.model-chat.com)

Mr. Sugasm Himself
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3 Porn Based Urban Legends (http://sugarbank.com)

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Retro Raw: The Best of Amber Lynn (http://retrosexblog.com)

Early Masturbation Experiences

I thought I might write up a few experiences, early on in my masturbating career. I hope some people find them interesting.

One thing I can remember clearly was waking up later than usual on school holidays to the greatest sound ever: silence. Silence signals that there are no parents around because they left for work not that long ago. Silence also means that for the next 6 or so hours, I am free as a bird.

In those early years, I was not as well setup as now. I had a tight foreskin until quite recently, so I didn't know the pleasure it could bring, in fact it mainly brought discomfort. I also had no porn to get the juices flowing. It was the bra and panties pages of the department store flyers only! But, I took advantage of those early times and wanked away, often spending 4 or so hours wanking, hanging back for a little and then repeating the process. The day with 4 free wanking hours is rare nowadays, unfortunately.

Another which hangs out in my mind is one night the parents were off at the Parent/Teacher evening at my school seeing how much of a studious little boy I was. This would be a couple of hours, and I had nothing else to do, so I picked out a movie and threw it in the VCR. I picked Under Siege. Now anyone who has seen this film knows that it isn't much. Just your standard Steven Seagal action flick...with Erika Eleniak. That particular scene had been a favorite of mine for quite some time. I must have rewound, and played it over a dozen times but I had the orgasm of my life (at the time) then. I felt utterly drained and tired afterwards. I've always had a bit of a soft spot for Erika ever since.

I can also remember going for a walk once and needing to pee. I had walked quite a distance and was in a fairly secluded spot. There were no people around and I had ventured off the walking trail. After answering the call of nature, I sported an erection. I'll bet it is no contest what happened next? That was the first time I masturbated in public. Jerking off in public feels a little different to when you are at home. Your heart pounds faster, the nerves seem to amplify the orgasm a bit as well. It kicked off my interest in every now and then not being closed off in my house to have a wank.

Another time was in my mid teens. I was out all night at a friend's party. Normally I would have had to have gone to work with my parents the next day, but I was told that when I get home to go to sleep, when I wake up give them a call to see if I was needed. Since my parents were no longer working 9 - 5 jobs, this had put a huge dampener on my usual masturbating habits. So I was trying to get as many opportunities as I could. The party wound down around 2am and I fell asleep on my friend's couch - with a scheme.

If I could sleep until around 8am, that would give me time to get some breakfast and head home in time to just miss my parents heading off to their shop. This had two advantages, I was rested so I wouldn't waste my free day sleeping and I was on a week long dry spell and had some freshly acquired porn to have a look at. Now is there any better combination?

My plan worked beautifully. It was a lovely day outside so I grabbed a few magazines and whisked myself outside and got to work. There is another reason this even sticks in my mind, it is the first time I shot a load any significant distance - about a meter. I was again quite drained but I had to make the most of my short time. So after an hour or so I got busy again, thinking the next orgasm would be significantly less than the first - I was incorrect. Again around 1m and, although it is hard to tell shooting a load into the garden, I'd say about the same volume.

I hope you found those early memories interesting :). And if you didn't, here is a photo of what I have just recently used to masturbate to.
I find it hard to resist Alley Baggett's sinful leer ;)

October 2006

So how was October wanking wise? If you go by the statistics alone, you would conclude "not very well".

Total: 24
Total with parent in country: 7
Total with parent not in country: 17

However, I should point out that of those 17, for many I took the time to do the job properly, so to speak. October was very much a month of "quality over quantity".

Total for year: 303
Total while in country: 98
Total while not in country: 205

It would seem that my original theory that I get much more wanking done whilst the traveling parent is away is coming true.

In other news, my latest effort for gotcum is here.

The latest action.

I've been rather quiet for the last week and a bit. It's the end of the scholastic year, and that means getting the last assignments, assessments and exams done and sorted. I also have the added pressure of finalizing my post graduate studies and now many extra hours at work. Quite the hell week.

In terms of the wanking stats, this month has so far been...mediocre. So whilst the figures are quite low so far (and with the hell week coming up, the end of the month will not be spectacular either), the quality has been fantastic.

Let's take last night for example.

I watched some TV, not particularly riveting TV and then retired to my room. I did a little bit more school work and called it a day after about an hour. Around this time of 10.30pm, the house is pretty quiet. The traveling parent is away right now, so no hassle there and the other parent was fast asleep. Time to get to work!

I waited 8 seconds for an erection and whipped my pants off and got busy.

I pulled back my foreskin, and a few drops of precum leaked out, I used my free fingers to spread that over the head of my penis. Instead of quick, frantic strokes, I mixed it up a little bit with the longer, more drawn out "complete" strokes, moving my foreskin all the way back and then forward again. Whenever I have the time and patience to do this, I am always rewarded. Not only with an ejaculation with more volume, but a longer and stronger orgasm.

This time was no disappointment either.

Lately I have also managed to wait around 8 - 12 minutes and be ready to go again. This is fairly common in my age range, but what I find more surprising is that if I take the time to do things "properly" again, I am rewarded with an identical finish from the first time.

I think this is fantastic!

It's been a little while without some photos, so here are a few that helped me out.



I am a new Gianna Michaels fan as well. I apologize for the very few updates this month, it has been very full on. School ends this week, so I should have a lot more free time to wank, and then write about it, stay tuned :)

Sugasm #50

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The "backdoor", I went in.

For a long while now I have always been a little intrigued by the backdoor entrance, the exit hole, call it what you wish. I've never really had the courage to go any further than to run my finger over the outer rim.

While the parents were away earlier this year, I made a list of things I would like to try. This was on there, but I never really went that far with it. If I am trying anything new I usually dance around it for a while, then chicken out a few times then plunge right in and feel like a dork because it wasn't anything to be too scared about.

A few months ago, I thought enough stuffing about, time to take the plunge. I had read a couple of articles, make sure I am relaxed, well lubricated and to take it easy. I was in the shower and had knelt down to clean the nether regions and thought that this was indeed the time to try it.

I relaxed, at first I had trouble actually locating anything, but that was soon sorted. I relaxed more, and slowly slid my middle finger inwards. A little push and I was in there. I had a bit of a feel around and that was that.

I could cross something else off my list.

After a week or so of practising in the shower, I got more and more comfortable with the idea. The nerves and trepidation soon wore off and I began to look forward to that part of my daily showering routine. I still do.

Now I look forward to that not only in the shower, but when I have the time to stick a finger in there and wiggle it around during my usual masturbation. I've found it has made orgasm more intense and enjoyable over the regular way. I'm also looking at a toy to use, but so far nothing seems to suit what I am after.

Do you like anal play when wanking?

Sugasm #49

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September totals

September was a close run month.

I masturbated 15 times while the traveling parent wasn't here, and 14 when they were.

So far this year I have masturbated 275 times, with a ratio of;

66.5% of all wanks were when the parent was out of the country
33.5% while they were.

I think my original posit is turning out very, very true.

Tuesday marks when they go away again, so I will be free to wank it up!

MILFs

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I don't know her name, but she helped me!

Maybe this will be inspiration?

My last bit of wank fuel

For your wanking enjoyment :)

I'm back

I've been a little quiet lately.

All laziness :)

I've also caught yet another cold. I am most definitely not having a good year in regards to colds. At least this one is on the way out. So, how goes the wanking.

Not too bad. I took advantage of the precious few days the traveling parent was not around to make the most of the opportunity to wank away. And wank I did!

That particular parent has spent 15 days in the country and 11 out. While in the coutnry I managed a measly 10. While out, I managed 15 times! My original posit that I get more wanking done with less parents around is certainly coming true.

I also had a chance to play with my fleshlight again. I realised that I hadn't used it for about a month and my penis was certainly glad to get back into it. I also started to relax a bit more. I would go through all the trouble of getting it ready, and using it for only a few minutes and then going to the trouble to pack it away.

I of course only last a few minutes because of all the anticipation and excitement of using the thing. If I think of using it in the morning, it is on my mind for the rest of the day, leaving me mostly aroused.

But after the usual lasting of a few minutes only. I felt a little disappointed with myself. But fuck it says I. I sit around for a little bit and wait for the refactory period to end. Watching porn helps to identify the exact second when things are ready to go again.

After that, I would drop a little bit more lube in and go for another round. The second time round I lasted a long longer, actually managing to thrust for a few minutes and still hold on. It was fantastic.

Sugasm #47

The best of the sex blogs this week by the bloggers who blog them. Featuring the top 3 posts voted by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #48? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Lazy Sunday (http://www.chillivanilla.com)
“I flick my thumb across your clit, as if I were lighting a match, which, in many ways I am.”

The Secret (http://confessions112.blogspot.com)
“I came back to the bed and started to lavish kisses on him, savoring the inches of skin on him that I knew were mine and mine alone.”

You’re all I want (http://theholidaylife.blogspot.com)
“Go to the couch. Bend over. For me.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
How to Cure Female Ejaculation (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Fetish, Fashion and The War On Terror (http://adelehaze.com)

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BDSM and Fetish
Double Penetration (Fangs & Cock) (http://la-day.blogspot.com)
Hurt Me, Please (http://everythingoze.blogspot.com)
Isabella’s Eyes - Part VIII (http://nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)
Morning quickie (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
The weekender #4: The beginnings of our lifestyle (http://seanandmel.blogspot.com)

NSFW Pics
Asian 1 on 1 (http://www.internetisforporn.com)
Myspace Christine Dolce Nude (http://www.thesexbox.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
At a bar in a strange city (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
Be Sure to Tip Your Waitress (http://sabrinainstockings.com)
I *not only* write porn, but I also just do it. (http://eternalapprentice.blogsome.com)
Insatiable (http://talktovanessa.com)
Just for the taste of her (part two)…and breakfast (http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com)
Last Night (http://mandyseroticlife.blogspot.com)
Mr Henry writes debauched dialogue (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
The Rain (Part I) (http://grlnxtdoortx2.blogspot.com)
Sexwars (http://dirtyandthirty.blogspot.com)
A visit (http://edtimestories.blogspot.com)
You Can’t Come To My Room Tonight (http://makemycopcome.blogspot.com)

Sex News and Sexy Reviews
Fat Man In A Barrel (http://www.orgasmarmy.com)
Meet the Sperm Testers (http://www.TaraTainton.com)
Product Review - Head Candy (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
Sex and Booze (http://www.seskuality.com)
Sex Toys For Vacations (http://sultry.naughtyblog.net)
Straight Porn Review: Squirts So Good (http://blog.johnqafterhours.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Ewww, your parents had sex? (http://www.realadultsex.com)
Fucking To Heal (http://fuckingtheministersdaughter.blogspot.com)
Half-Nekkid and Tending to Nature (http://www.TarasNaughtyShop.com)
I’ve Been Outed…. AND I’m Back….. (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
No Rumors (http://femmefataleteen.blogspot.com)
The origins of the cane (http://www.spankingwriters.com/blog)
Screaming Orgasm- it’s not just a drink at the bar (http://ellabeecoquette.blogspot.com)
Sex and cupcakes (http://lustylady.blogspot.com)
A Sexual Theory (http://www.seska4lovers.com)
Snip-Snip, Quack-Quack-Quack (http://virtual-sex-tourist.com)
Where I’m coming from (http://principalquattrano.com/blog)
Why do I masturbate? (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)