Things are good

To be honest, I don't have much to say in this post.

While both parents are away most things go quite well.

I eat what I want, I wank when I want and I can be myself.

You know what I figured out one night riding the circular bus route? When my parents are away, I quite like myself. Which sounds strange for me to say. I don't like to boast and try to avoid saying almost anything positive about myself. But I look in the mirror and increasingly like what I see in the reflection.

This tends to change when one of the parents (the one that travels far less) is around. I'm hoping that when I start working, being outside of their, at times caustic self will do me a world of good.

Now if my future employer would hurry up and let me know when I can start! (He hopes :P)

Sugasm #119

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #120? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
The Rule of Blowjobs for Women
“Tease. Spend time. Don’t just start out like a Hoover on overdrive.”

Commercialising Romance or “I bought you this card now where’s my blowjob?”
“If it takes a specific date for your partner to show you he loves you then what do you have?”

Relax
“She smiled up at him, from her vantage point between his knees, and continued what she’d been doing.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Questions…

Editor’s Choice
Hazards of the Biz

More Sugasm
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Erotic Writing and Experiences
Catalina loves Fantasies (about Friends)
Clit Notes
Distractions
Erin with a capital oooaaaaahhh
I saw and I came!
I will take Pancakes with a side of Camel Toe!
No Special Occasion
Phantom Fire
A Promise Kept
Quickie in men’s room
Relax
The Reunion (Part I)
Sanctuary
Wake me up with your tongue a Friday night bedtime story

Sex Advice
The 3 Best Positions for MFM Threesomes
I Didn’t Use a Condom

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
The Bedpost Interview: Lux Alptraum
Cop Seduced By Hot Tranny & Forced To Suck Cock
Njoy fun wand
Ode to my hitachi magic wand
Screaming Orgasm from Mr Vacuum
Review: Working Sex, Sex Workers Write About a Changing Industry
Stoya Bot HotMovies Interview
Texas Make Up For Lost Time With FREE Sex Toys!

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Feminist Carnival #53
Of Lust, Loss, Film Stars & Humor (Or, Get Me On Vince’s Bus)
Polyamory is SCARY!

Sex Work
Pictures from Last Night: Playing Dress Up

BDSM & Fetish
Dark Hearts…A BDSM Fantasy
The Empty Gas Tank - my first spanking video!
Gabriel, and self realization
I Love
Losing my virginity…with canes WF #4
She likes to feel pretty.
Shoe Slut
Smutty Talk
Today

Sex Humor
How To Tell If That Domme You’re Emailing Is Really A Man
How Do You Explain It?
Unusual And Tasteless Gifts For Valentine’s Day

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Black lips suck cock the best
Fetish Model January Seraph Is Tied To A Table Top
The Heart knows it’s presence, Unbound
Highlands
Kristyna - Funny Shave
Kyla Cole
Met Art: Lisa, Sharon & Jenya; Monika; Valleria; Vika
My reading on YouTube
Nude by Didier Carre
The Red HNT
Satine Phoenix Is A Feminine Feline Fantasy In This Corset And Collar

Emmy Rossum

I once read somewhere that Emmy Rossum is a very difficult person to work with. Very demanding and haughty.

I wonder if beauty treatments are part of her demands?

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I saw and I came!

Writing a thesis is a stressful thing, and it's not particularly fun. Finishing it is fun, before that it fucking sucks. Once it was over and done with, I had planned to visit the brothel I had been to the last two times. However, Christmas, family stuff and so on kept getting in the way and a good time just never came up.

Until now.

The last two times the parents were around, and my plan to last more than 30 seconds when there is quite simple: I jerk off before I go. Didn't say it was fancy or sophisticated, but it does work. The problem with this plan is I need to find enough time with privacy so I can a) jerk off, and then b) have a shower and head off.

But this time with no parents in the country, it is significantly easier. Jerk off whenever you want and leave.

Apart from the obvious motivations for visiting a brothel, I treat it like 1 hour of confidence building - on crack.

First of all, there was no nervous circling the block several times, I just turned in.

The madam introduced me to who was working this day. The two women I had been with before were there. The first was talking to someone and the second, in retrospect I found kind of cold. So I sat myself down next to Mitzi. Mitzi was about 5'6", slender build, ample chest, long hair, and a lovely smile.

I started to talk and found it easy to hold a conversation, which made me infinitely more comfortable. Although, I do think I am a little bit of question machine gun, which doesn't feel right. Money changed hands and I was led upstairs.

After the shower I lay on the bed and had a massage. Which I am always a little afraid, and skeptical of. Do they even do anything? And while they are doing potentially nothing, am I going to get some painful back injury? Well, it did have an effect and I wasn't in pain. So that part is an enjoyable success.

I rolled onto my back and waited.

Mitzi began to gyrate on top of me, and getting into the full swing of things I played/fondled/groped her breasts, which were magnificent. I don't know how to describe them, and ever since I saw "The 40 Year Old Virgin", I can only ever say they feel like a bag of sand.

The last time I went there, I wanted to see the lady play with herself for a bit. Last time, this was shot down. But this time, it was met with vigor. Mitzi plunged that finger in there and got to work in no time at all. And it was great, it was everything I thought it would be. I too played with herself and it too was fantastic.

Mitzi got a condom and slid it on, and blew me for some time. She stopped and asked if I was ready, which I damn well was. Mitzi was on top (I'll learn the names of these positions one day).

I know three times doesn't really qualify me to make many judgements about sex. But I will anyway.

a) I like it when she is on top. I can play with things and enjoy the view. Maybe I am just lazy to not get the same from missionary.

b) Doggie is like kryptonite. I like it, a lot, but it's all over or has the chance of being all over pretty quick with that.

After a while, Mitzi suggested doggie and I happily obliged, I was pretty close and it put me over the edge. We both cleaned up and went our ways.

You know what I learnt from this? I am getting better at talking to women who I find attractive. I can talk with people I have no attraction to with ease, but not the reverse. Maybe 2008 will work out ok :)

Sugasm #118

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #119? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
An Erotic Story…Samson and Delilah
“Now how exactly does one go about seducing a preacher?”

A Kiss
“Then, the lulling low roar of your voice falls away and we are both leaning forward, transfixed.”

Clif & Lydia Drop Over The Edge
“She nervously giggled and lowered her lashes. ”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
The Secret of Playboy Legs

Editor’s Choice
The Carnival of Feminists 53: Call for submissions

More Sugasm
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BDSM & Fetish
Art Show Maintenance Spanking part 2
Being of good use
Blow Me
Catalina loves (Unusual) Fetishes
Handball As A Contact Sport
Mz Berlin And Wired Pussy In Conspiracy Bigger Than Da Vinci Code (Bondage, Shibari, Violet Wand)
Naughty Request
Personal Growth Through BDSM
Pumped Up
Professional Submissive
Saturday night…
Thirty-Eight Caliber Nipples

Sex Work
Catalina loves Work (Part II)
Sex Worker Confessions: Vixen
Sex Worker Solidarity: Libertine

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
How to give good head
The power of penetration
What IS Love??

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
MC Nudes: Alice, Marta, Princessa & Vivian
Half-Nekkid Thursday: Icing Up the Nipples
Kyla Cole & Tara Radovic
Mz. Berlin Looks Stunning In This Waist Cincher Corset And Boots
Performance
Pic of the week (which one taste better?!)
Pornsaint Ashley Fires
Public Train Porn
Sandra Shine dolled up and nude
Sunny Leone is a masterpiece come to life

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Kinky Movie: Teacher’s Pet (Adult VOD, Bondage, Femdom, Mz. Berlin, Anastasia Pierce)
The Nawty (un)Valentine’s Chat!
Raunchy Review: Liquid Latex
Scary Contest?
Top 7 Political Hottie Endorsements
What’s the Greatest Sex Scene of All Time?

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Amusing Myself
A blowjob story with John Holmes
Butt Seriously
Coming like a train
Drive Me Hard
The Duvet
Exhaustion
Hannah and the Girl’s Night Out
Hooking Up On Craigslist is Like Playing the Lottery
Now that was a mouthful!
Phantom Touch
Showing off
Silence
Tango
You made my brain come a Friday night bedtime story

Raylene Richards

I don't know too much about Raylene Richards. I haven't seen her in anything before. But after seeing her holding her tits together and that sneer, they made the perfect target :)

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