Sunday, August 27, 2006
"The drought must be broken!", I think to myself.
So I head in for a shower, and take my sweet time doing it. It had been a little while since I had shaved my pubic hair, so I started off with that. That was all done, nice and cleanly shaven. Then I had a wash and dried off.
I started off slowly, lathering up the head with the copious amounts of pre-cum that were now starting to ooze out fairly steadily. Having a look at some newly acquired porn, and some of the favorites.
I felt the point of no return approaching...and I turned back, a few times.
After the 5th time of that, I thought the next approach to the critical moment, I will push myself over the edge.
I stood up, got a firm footing, wanked hard and furiously, then WOOSH!
I shot 12 very ample shots all over my desk, with the first one leaving with so much force that after I checked today, it went about 4ft.
A very satisfying wank indeed! As much as I would like to have a wank like that every time, a multiple day drought is a huge ask!
I have time during the day for hobbies / entertainment, but not too much private time. I work part time, so my days are not filled at an office or warehouse. I have quite a lean university schedule, and having been there for a few years now, I am quite in tune on how to get the most marks out of least effort.
I usually have a few daylight hours "free" every few days. The Wanking?
I am a private person by nature, if you met me before this blog and I told you, you would not believe me. So I like to have a bit of privacy about my masturbation.
The day winds down, I eat dinner, watch some TV and then it's time for wanking. The parent(s) are asleep at the other end of the house, I can make a bit of noise and have no fear of the approaching parent I cannot hear because of the silent carpet.
So why luxurious?
Because the days I have the chance to strip off all my clothes, have a good long slow wank and not worry about being walked in on are rare days. On those days I can fully soak up the hedonistic pleasures of it all. This is much better than the usual stolen quick wank at night time.
Now, I don't know about other people, but I like to see myself cum. I feel I should at least witness the pay off from all my hard work. At night the lighting here is not the best and artificial light casts wider shadows in my room which makes it look odd. Daylight is perfect.
Another great aspect of masturbating during the middle of the day is that all around me, people have 9 - 5 jobs, there is no one around to hear the porn, or me. Unfortunately, many of my neighbors have 2 storey houses, and I don't. From some angles they have a perfect view into my yard. Which makes the outdoors wanking a bit more difficult. When they are not around, lying out on the grass on a warm spring day is fantastic.
That's why I love to wank during the daylight hours. How about you?
Wednesday, August 23, 2006
I posted the latest thing I jerked off to, which was a few days ago now. It is a little strange. I want to jerk off, but at the same time I don't really feel like it. Odd
The travelling parent has arrived back in the country, which unfortunately means that I will be once again have a lot less time to myself, to do what I like to do the most.
But now I should be able to post a little more regularly, plus I have printed out some more pictures for Got Cum? submissions, so check back soonish. :)
Tuesday, August 22, 2006
Monday, August 14, 2006
This week’s best of the sex blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Now with the top 3 posts voted by Sugasmers. Want in Sugasm #43? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.
Mr. Sugasm Himself
An Illustrated Guide to Nude Modeling (sugarbank.com)
Top Voted Posts
Threesome with Master R and Master Anakin (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
Voluntarily Violated (http://everythingoze.blogspot.com)
Girls Gone Wild: Producer Going to Hell (http://susiebright.com)
(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)
Sex News and Sexy Reviews
Audacia Ray films her porn movie! (http://viviane212.blogspot.com)
Glass Sex Toy 101 (http://sultry.naughtyblog.net)
New Kinky Designs Added! (http://www.tarasnaughtyshop.com)
Sex Toys Between Your Sheets: Write About It! (http://blog.babeland.com)
Straight Porn Review: Fuck It Like It’s Hot (http://blog.johnqafterhours.com)
Erotic Writing and Experiences
HNT: The Heartbreakingly Kinky Sex (http://sabrinainstockings.com)
Mom’s Advice - His Fallen Angel (http://dawnndirty.blogspot.com)
The Purple Thing (http://bdsmlover.blogspot.com)
Suck Me! (http://gentlygently.blogspot.com)
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Anatomy of a pinup, part 1 (telling the story)… (http://retromodernist.com)
Hanging onto Life by a G-String (http://www.taratainton.com)
The importance of being “in” (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
Let’s Talk About Sex (http://www.seskuality.com)
Male Issues & The world revolves around My pussy? (http://www.alphadominablog.com)
Past Pleasures (http://edinerotica.blogspot.com)
The Quiet Ones (http://redfrique.blogspot.com)
Sleeping Naked (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)
Why do men fall asleep after sex? (http://myhotbox.blogspot.com)
BDSM and Fetish
Dominating my Man! (http://www.la-day.blogspot.com)
The Honeymoon Part II (http://redvelvetropeburn.com)
Judas Kiss (http://nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)
Met with a white boi today (http://www.caramelvixen.com)
Negotiation 101 (http://www.dangerousfemme.com)
A Pleasant Personal Punishment (Part One) (http://seanandmel.blogspot.com)
A Return To (http://fresh-fetish.com/blog)
NSFW Pics Lots
More New Nudes of Me (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
My Friend Naughty Julie (http://www.seska4lovers.com)
New I Feel Myself Video (http://eroticandy.blogspot.com)
Nicole Graves (http://hotboxbabe.thumblogger.com)
Sex Work My Sweet Lil Young Voice… (http://kyliecallme.com)
Friday, August 11, 2006
So, here is my contribution :)
Tuesday, August 08, 2006
So I am going to post the photos of what I was looking at, at the time of orgasm.
Monday, August 07, 2006
Everything else I have ever wanted to figure out or try, I have without too much hassle.
- Full and easy retraction of my foreskin
- Lowering the sensitivity of glans to make playing with my foreskin more enjoyable
- Shaving dick & balls
- Venture a finger into the "tradesman's entrance"
But the one thing I am never quite able to get past the bit of me that controls inhibitions is taking my clothes off when I go to sleep.
Every time I try as a sort of "spur of the moment" type thing, I screw it up. Invariably after a few minutes my brain (as any young male brain does) starts thinking about sex, or jerking off, or porn, or all 3 at once! Given the new found easy access to the equipment, soon enough I'm wanking away.
If I plan a few hours beforehand, more than likely I will wimp out and take the safe and proven, clothed option. If I have my usual pre - sleep tug, I will try to resist the urge to throw everything back on and climb into bed. But I fail.
In the first instance I had a few theories formulated to try and explain why I could not ever quite accomplish my aim.
The first was that when I was a much younger fellow in 1996 for some unknown reason I wet the bed. Before that time I cannot even remember doing it. That stuck out like a sore thumb. For a few years after, it remained wedged in my mind. I have to discount the idea for today's problems as it hasn't happened in a whole decade, and if it did happen again what sort of safeguard is wearing a thin pair of boxers going to achieve?
The second is as a teenager I had heard that wet dreams were partly caused by direct stimulation by sheets & blankets etc. I've never had a wet dream, I much preferred to be awake to enjoy my orgasms.
When I was in the beginner stage of using my foreskin (which I've said happened quite late, around 17 years old) I often times had a bit of a problem with cum leaking out after the fact. Or a bit getting caught in the foreskin and oozing out later on. Wishing to avoid the tell - tale signs on my sheets, I would quickly whip the boxers back on and go to sleep. Which in the end was pretty bloody stupid anyway as the little wet spot would be on my front. Now I wait a few minutes and squeeze the final few drops out. So no more indications.
The final reason I could think of would be the chance of being walked in on. For years there was a sort of unspoken rule that my door shouldn't be closed. No idea why, but it shouldn't. Now it is quite acceptable as it keeps my dog out when I try to sleep. People knock when they need me for something, so I have to reject that theory.
I really want to beat this particular hang up, especially in the warmer months as it is infinitely more comfortable.
Am I crazy? Should I just get on with it and try harder? Practice some self - control? Or are there any other people with a similar issue? Let me know :)
July was a fairly sad state of affairs
In country: 13
Not in country: 12.
This brings the total for the year up to 224 times, with the breakdown as
In country: 72 (32.1%)
Not in country: 152 (67.9%)